May 25th, 2012

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Annoying sexist boys

This is not super related to Lolita, but I really need some advice.
So this is what happened. There is a guy, a skinny, slimy, and good for nothing guy who is in 2 of my courses. He constantly makes sexist remarks and insists that  "bitches" is the same as calling women ladies or gals. Since I go to a small high school, in one of the classes he always sits next to me in our class of 9. I don't think I can remember a single day this year where he did not pretend to slap me across the face or make some rude joke about my mother.  I used to think that he was doing this to impress his friends, but he really has quite a few and only gets attention making these low-blow jokes.
      I seriously don't think this tool has watched anything that doesn't have Seth Rogan or explicit nudity in it. The worst part is, the teachers don't give a fuck. "Boys will be Boys" or "He probably just likes you" they say. The school division has a Zero Tolerance Policy,  and it is common knowledge that I'm a lesbian. I really get the feeling that they just don't want to or know how to deal with this.  
    Before we graduate in June, we both have to work on a huge project which require many hours working and asking each others opinions. I can't stand to be around him, but I'm forced to up wards of 4 hours a day. We are a week into the three weeks it is going to take to finish it. He is always saying over and over again "Why do I have to do all the work around here?" "Why are you so stupid? Your a waste of my tax dollars" "Can women do anything right?" and "Why do you wear such slutty rags? (referring to Lolita)" Every fucking 30 seconds.
    Even worse him and his buddies joined Navy last month. Since I to am in the navy (for a summer job playing in the band) I have to attend basic training in the summer. The officers are much more strict, but the men more so, mis-understand bulling for flirting. I am really considering finding a new summer job, even if that means loosing my five thousand dollar scholar ship.
     I really have no idea how to handle this problem. Last time I did, it ended with me dumping a slushie down his back, that caused him to have a actual seizure and that ended up getting suspended from school for a half a month. So many people jump to the conclusion that I'm some sort of raging feminist and tell me "stop taking things so seriously". I'm sorry this is so long, but I can not handle this any more.